Sexual Positions For All

Foreplay - Back Massage Techniques

2008-01-11T08:43:00.000-08:00

Back massages have been bringing lovers together for centuries. From India to Japan, to brothels in the Wild West, relieving the tension that inevitably builds up in our back muscles can be both soothing and arousing. There are a lot of different types of manipulations that can be used to work out knots, promote health and increase general levels of well being. It is also a great way to connect with a partner and gain a serious upper hand in any tally of good deeds with your lover.

Like a bull in a china shop, most of us wade into back massages without any idea of what is at stake. A good massage, as opposed to some pinching, prodding or poking rendition, can make that special someone turn to mush. Here at sexpose.blobspot.com we are going to give you the tips that are going make you look and feel like a cheap hooker with a PhD in pleasure. So take out your notebook, your red pencil and prepare to get the goods.

Effects

If you need some encouragement to either give or ask for a massage, then look no further. Although offering a single massage is a good pick-up technique, the effects of regular massages are cumulative, and incorporating massage into your monthly patterns (be it professional or relational) will give the greatest benefit. Regular massage can have the effect of strengthening and toning the entire body mechanism, and so help to prevent unnecessary strains and injuries that might otherwise occur due to excess tension and any resulting structural weaknesses. Massage can stimulate or calm the nervous system and thus help reduce fatigue, leaving the receiver with a feeling of replenished energy. At its best, massage has the potential to restore the individual - physically and mentally.

Common Types

Since we are trying to prepare you to deliver Navy-Seals-type massages, the best place to start is by figuring out what kind of massage to give. The following are descriptions of four common styles of massages with four specific expected outcomes. Once you figure out which style fits the profile, then you can decide which of our suggested techniques to apply.

SWEDISH MASSAGE

Swedish massage therapists use five basic strokes, which anyone can learn and use on themselves and others. They are effleurage (stroking); petrissage (muscles are lightly grabbed and lifted); friction (thumbs and fingertips work in deep circles into the thickest part of muscles); tapotement (chopping, beating, and tapping strokes); and vibration (fingers are pressed or flattened firmly on a muscle, then the area is shaken rapidly for a few seconds).

DEEP TISSUE MASSAGE

Deep tissue massage targets chronic tension in muscles that lie far below the surface of your body. You have five layers of muscle in your back (for instance), and while Swedish massage may help the first couple of layers, it won't do much directly for the muscle underneath. Deep muscle techniques usually involve slow strokes, direct pressure or friction movements that go across the grain of the muscles. Massage therapists will use their fingers, thumbs or occasionally even elbows to apply the needed pressure.

SPORTS MASSAGE

Sports massage is designed to help you train better, whether you're a world champion or a weekend warrior. The techniques are similar to those in Swedish and deep tissue massage, but has been adapted to meet the athlete's special needs. Focus on the lower back and shoulders. Using heat and petrissage can promote injury reduction and prevention.

NEUROMUSCULAR MASSAGE

Neuromuscular Massage is a form of deep tissue massage that is applied to individual muscles. It is used to increase blood flow, reduce pain and release pressure on nerves caused by injuries to muscles and other soft tissue. Neuromuscular massage helps release trigger points; intense knots of stressed muscle can also "refer" pain to other parts of the body. Relieving a tense trigger point in your back, for example, could help ease pain in your shoulder or reduce headaches.

Now the Secrets!

When you are starting your massage, remember that the back muscles are usually massaged in three groups. A successful back rub will cover all three groups.

1. The long muscles that run parallel to the spine.

2. The flat muscle groups that cover the top of the back and lower neck.

3. The wide band of muscles that stretches from the spine to the side of the back.

Begin the back rub with a simple circulation (sweeping motion) that touches all three areas in a simple, continuous stroke. You needn't press hard during this stroke.

Circulation stroke – Clocking in…

Begin with your hands flat and your fingers facing up from the base of the spine. Slide your hands along the spine, up towards the head. When you reach the neck, turn your hands so that your fingers massage along the top of the shoulders and then down the outer sides of the back. When you come back down the outer sides of the back, turn your hands back to the original position. If this confusing, think of it this way: if your back is a butterfly and your spine is the body, trace the spine with both hands. At the base of the neck, separate your hands and trace the wings, bringing you back to the base of the body. Repeat this circulation movement about ten times.

Pressing the Back

Pressing the back is the most dramatic massage stroke available. Since massage is about muscle tissue, and not back-cracking or other chiropractic issues, make sure that you keep that in mind during the back press. Keeping this in mind, the first step to this stroke is finding the mounds of muscle that run along side the spinal column. Massage is the manipulation of muscle tissue. These ridges are where you should concentrate your attention.

When pressing up the back, start at the base of the spine (even as low as the upper buttock). Apply pressure with the heel of each hand. Slide your hands along the ridges of muscle from the very base of the spine until you reach the shoulder blades.

In contrast to the circulation stroke, don't bring your hands back along the far outside of the back. In this stroke bring your hands back just off the original line, like mowing your lawn. You will know when you are doing this stroke properly. Your partner will moan with delight. At least ten strokes are appropriate here.

Variations: Small circles as you glide up the spine, use your thumbs in place of the heel of your hand; scratch their back as you return to the base of the spine. Use your own imagination.

Finger Kneading Along the Spine

Use your fingertips to knead the two strands of long muscles that run just outboard of the spine. The muscles work very hard keeping you upright, and are sometimes the only support our (increasingly) soft middles have. Envision yourself kneading at every vertebra. Two or more trips up and down the spine are great.

Back Compression

This stroke is another one that attacks the muscles beside the spine. Put the heel of your hand on those same long muscles that run down your back. Push downward. Release the pressure and then move slightly up the spine. Make three or so passes up the spine. This stroke can also be done hands together, first on the right side, then both hands together on the left side of the spine.

Kneading the Bread

Knead the muscle of the upper and lower back. Pressing on bone won't have any effect on your partner. Try to find the tissue of the muscles and work that area. The effect is worth the effort.

The Pinch

Use the thumbs of each hand to press folds of flesh and muscle together. The hands move slightly in opposite directions to scissor the flesh between the two thumbs. Moving your thumbs in small circles during this stroke is a nice addition.

Shoulder Massaging

With one hand, lift up on your partners shoulder. You will only need to lift it about an inch. You can accomplish this by just sliding your hand underneath their shoulder. With your other hand find the muscle tissue that runs across the upper back. Kneading the muscle tissue that is just in from the edge of the shoulder blade is fantastic.

It is a difficult stroke to get right, but your partner will tell you when you have hit the spot. If you don't understand, have your partner try it on you. If they find the spot, you will know exactly why this is my personal favorite.

Knead the Neck

The muscles that run behind the neck form a sort of diamond pattern. The muscles that run up the neck are thick and respond well to kneading with the thumbs. The muscles that run downward to the spine are thinner and can be kneaded with the heel of the hand. Alternating between using your thumbs and the heel of your hand, will make you look a real pro and keep the massage from becoming an uncomfortable experience.

Spend some time on this area with small movements that run up the back of the neck. Try not to pull on your partner’s hair.

Curling And Kneading The Shoulders

Depending on if your partner has thin or thick shoulders you should be either delicate or firm. Work slowly and feel the muscle tissue around the bones of the shoulders and necks. Curl your fingers over the ridge of the shoulder. Feel the muscle tissue. Press the heel of your hand into the back of the tissue while your fingers manipulate it from the front.

Warming The Back – Hot Hands Harry

At this stage you might want to finish the massage or you may wish to transition to the front of the body. Here is a movement that will accomplish this smoothly. Breathe on your hands to moisten them slightly. Take your hands and vigorously rub them together until they get hot. Do this a number of times placing your hot hands progressively lower down the back. This motion is relaxing and awakening. Your partner should have no trouble turning over in the anticipation that more delights follow.

A Nice End…

To end the massage you might want to finish with brushing. You can do this by lightly touching the ends of your fingertips all over the areas that you have just massaged. Since those areas will be freshly vitalized these muscles will respond with an intensely sensual experience.

Foreplay - Tips & Techniques

2008-01-11T08:26:00.000-08:00

Foreplay is a fundamental part of the whole lovemaking experience. Most men and women experienced in sex will agree that the best sexual encounters should include long and sensual foreplay. A more attentive form of foreplay will bring increased pleasure to both partners, and make any sexual experience more satisfying.

Both partners need a little extra spice to get fully aroused and achieve maximum pleasure. The man may need to prolong foreplay to get an erection and the women will usually need the same to become properly lubricated. There is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. The trick is to start intercourse when both partners are fully aroused and having a hard time controlling their desires from foreplay.

Foreplay includes a range of activities such as undressing, kissing, petting, and oral sex; but you can add your own thoughts to the list. Sensitive foreplay is so important to good sex because it will help both partners enjoy sexual intercourse more, and it will especially help women reach orgasm more often. Most woman need prolonged stimulation in order to reach a complete arousal, and foreplay will provide them with the required encouragement.

There is no such thing as the definitive foreplay; it is not about pressing the right buttons in the right order. It is about understanding what makes your partner tick and supplying those things that make the experience exceptionally pleasurable. There are many ways to give your partner extreme pleasure, and it all begins in the brain. Compliment their appearance or other attributes, especially if they have a low confidence level; show them that you care about them and what they enjoy.

Creating the right environment for sexual intercourse is all about paying attention to the details, which is especially important at mature stages in the relationship. For example, make sure the room is warm, the lighting subdued, and the appropriate music is playing. Once the mood is right, take the time to undress each other slowly, because the act of removing your partner's clothes can be an important part of successful foreplay. Many find that undressing increases the eroticism - stimulating and intensifying the feeling.

During foreplay, go slow; begin by kissing and caressing. A kiss is usually the first physical expression of love and desire, but it is also often forgotten during sexual intercourse. During intercourse, kiss the different parts of your partner’s body, and don’t be restricted solely to the mouth. Most women complain that their partners don't kiss long enough and rush the movement directly to the genital area. Don't be shy to experiment on every part of the body (for example, many women enjoy particular kissing and nibbling attention to the neck and shoulders), and remember to prolong the foreplay with more kissing and caressing.

Another reason foreplay is important is for the learning experience. Foreplay is the perfect time to spend time understanding what your partner likes because without that, you will never understand what they really need to be fully stimulated. Don't be shy; ask for feedback and also give your own. Both partners gain from good communication during foreplay and lovemaking. If words fail you, either SHOW or GUIDE your partner in the direction you want, and encourage them to do the same.

Remember that only by communication can we understand what is required to improve, and that practice makes perfect!

Women On Top : Armchair Sex Position

2008-01-11T05:23:00.000-08:00

One of the more creative positions, the armchair is hours of fun once you can get the rhythm down. To get into this position, the giver sits up with his legs straight while their partner sits on top of them with legs on the giver’s shoulders and arms being used for support. Unfortunately, it takes quite a bit of strength on behalf of the receiver to perform this position, so you may need to train before you can enjoy all of its glory.

RATINGS

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IMPROVEMENTS

Pillows : The giver may want to put a pillow under their rear.

Hands : The giver can play with, massage, support, and maybe even slap the receiver’s rear.

Women On Top : Amazon Sex Position

2008-01-11T05:05:00.000-08:00

Not for the timid, the amazon can be one of the tougher women on top positions. It is not the easiest position to get into, but it does give the receiver a sense of control and power that is absent or low in most positions. To get into this position, the receiver squats over their partner while resting on the back of their legs; which are brought towards their chest to expose them at a unique angle. If the receiver is comfortable with their balance, they can reach behind and under to give their partner some additional manual stimulation.

RATINGS

IMPROVEMENTS

Pillows : The giver may want to put a pillow under their rear.

Women On Top : Acrobat Sexual Position

2008-01-10T06:37:00.000-08:00

An extreme form of the rodeo position, the acrobat is a very intimate transition from its more common cousin. The easiest way to get into the acrobat position is to have the giver lie down on their back then have their partner lie down backwards from the rodeo position. One side note; unlike the rodeo position, the acrobat requires the giver to take over stroking duties.

RATINGS

IMPROVEMENTS

Pillows : The giver may want to put a pillow under their rear.

Hands : The giver has great access to their partner’s chest and genitals, so make sure to keep them hands busy.

Women On Top Sex Positions

2008-01-09T05:30:00.000-08:00

Ahh, control. Sometimes it seems that sex is all about control, and so much of that sexual control is all about the man, and how he exercises it. That is what makes women-on-top positions so revolutionary in some ways. It is a chance for both parties to switch roles and try something new.

Having your women on top can take many different forms, all of which are discussed in the following sections, but what makes the biggest difference from other sexual positions is the control that the women have in these sexual endeavors. There is a general assumption that men have all the power in sex and that practicing women-dominant sexual position is somehow a completely female power issue. But if you look more closely it is clearly noted that in many ways giving up some of the responsibility for pleasure in bed can give men a break, and a chance to lie back and enjoy the ride. Instead of worrying about lasting and thrusting and making sure that your women orgasms, being on the bottom and in a less active role, can let men focus on their breathing and their pleasure.

At precisely the same moment this means that women, who, for the most part have always been at the mercy of their lover to achieve pleasure, can charge forward in search of their orgasm. They can position their lover’s penis so that it hits all their hot spots, or so that they can grind their man’s pelvis against their clitoris. By taking control of their sexuality women can sometimes be able to enjoy it more and more likely get what they are looking for from the sexual experiences. Women on our panel have suggested that a man that loves to ridden or at least enjoys more women dominated sexual positions, can gain access to secret sexual desires far more than a selfish lover. Listen up boys, this is for you as much as it is for her.

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Sexual Positions For All

Foreplay - Back Massage Techniques

Effects

Common Types

Now the Secrets!

Circulation stroke – Clocking in…

Pressing the Back

Finger Kneading Along the Spine

Back Compression

Kneading the Bread

The Pinch

Shoulder Massaging

Knead the Neck

Curling And Kneading The Shoulders

Warming The Back – Hot Hands Harry

A Nice End…

Foreplay - Tips & Techniques

Women On Top : Armchair Sex Position

RATINGS

IMPROVEMENTS

Women On Top : Amazon Sex Position

RATINGS

IMPROVEMENTS

Women On Top : Acrobat Sexual Position

RATINGS

IMPROVEMENTS

Women On Top Sex Positions

Acrobat

Amazon

Armchair

Cowgirl

Asian Cowgirl

Fusion

Mastery

Reverse Mastery

Inverted Missionary

Inverted Rear Entry

Rodeo

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